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Real Help for Parents Who Feel Defeated
Dedicated to the parents who felt defeated—but stayed.
Who returned, again and again, to rebuild love where exhaustion once lived.
The Problem
Children Don’t Always Say What They Feel… But They Always Show It
The meltdowns.
The silence.
The sudden anger.
The refusal.
As adults, we often respond to what we see—the behavior.
But beneath every behavior is something deeper:
- A feeling they cannot express
- A need they don’t know how to ask for
- A struggle they don’t understand themselves
And that’s where the gap begins.
Part 1 Available Now | Part 2 Coming Soon
What If You Could Finally Understand What Your Child Is Really Feeling—Even When They Don’t Say It?
A powerful, real – life book series helping parents, educators, and professionals decode children’s emotions and respond with clarity, empathy, and confidence.
The Shift
What If You Could Hear Their Inner Voice?
What if you could step into the child’s mind…
Understand what they are thinking…
And know exactly what they silently wish from you?
This series helps you do exactly that.
Introducing The Book
Introducing the Book Series That Helps You See Beyond Behavior
This is not just another parenting or teaching guide.
Each situation is presented in a powerful, unique format:
✔ The child’s inner voice
✔ The child’s silent wish
✔ A clear, practical adult response
So you don’t just understand—you know what to do next.
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What You’ll Gain
Here’s What This Will Change For You
- Understand the real reason behind difficult behaviors
- Respond with calm instead of confusion or frustration
- Build stronger emotional connections with children
- Support children through anxiety, conflict, and change
- Feel more confident in everyday situations
Who This Is For
Designed For Those Who Work Closely With Children
Available Now
50 Real – Life Situations. One Powerful Shift in Perspective.
A deeply relatable collection of situations from children aged 6–10, capturing what they feel but cannot express.
Coming Soon
The Journey Continues…
A deeply relatable collection of situations from children aged 6–10, capturing what they feel but cannot express.
AUTHORITY (ABOUT YOU)
Created by a Practitioner Who Works With Children Every Day
I am a counselling psychologist working closely with children, parents, and school systems.
My work is rooted in:
- Real – life school environments
- Daily interactions with children
- Deep understanding of emotional development
This is not theory.
This is lived, observed, and practiced experience.
Author Biography
Tanya Chopra is a Counseling Psychologist, Art Therapist, and MAC (Metaphorical Associative Cards) Facilitator with over 20 years of experience working with children, parents, and educators across diverse emotional and developmental needs.
Born and educated in the Russian Federation, Tanya brings a deeply integrative, trauma-informed, and culturally sensitive approach to emotional well-being. Through her work, she gently bridges the gap between emotion and expression, helping both children and adults understand what lies beneath behavior.
Her writing is rooted in one core belief:
Behavior is communication—and every child’s struggle carries a silent wish to be understood.
Through the When Little Hearts Roar series, Tanya invites parents to pause, reflect, and reconnect—with their child, their own inner child, and their authentic parenting voice.
“Through her work, she helps you see beyond the noise of everyday life—guiding you to meet your truest self, where freedom and joy naturally unfold.”
Your Approach
A Different Way of Understanding Children
- Resiliency – informed
- Child – centered
- Emotion – first, not behavior – first
- Practical and actionable
- Bridging home and school environments
Workshops
Bring This Work to Your School or Community
In addition to the book, I offer interactive workshops designed for real – life application.
Workshop Topics Include:
- Supporting children with Anxiety
- Supporting children with ADHD and impulsivity
- Understanding different learning needs -dyslexia/ dysgraphia/dyscalculia -What will happen after school?
- Parent – child communication – understanding on the level of Physiology and Neurology
- Reset workshop – Art therapy
- Reset workshop – MAC (metaphorical associative cards)
Formats Available:
- Schools (in – person)
- Online sessions
- Parent groups
- Educator training programs
Resources Value Stack
Go Beyond the Book
Access a growing library of resources designed for real – world use.
For Parents
- Emotional support strategies
- Daily situation guides
- Behavior understanding tools
For Educators
- Classroom strategies
- Inclusion practices
For Counsellors & Psychologists
- Case – based insights
- Intervention ideas
- School collaboration frameworks
Topics Covered
Real Situations You’ll Recognize Instantly
- Anxiety and school refusal
- Friendship issues and bullying
- Emotional outbursts and meltdowns
- Sibling conflicts
- ADHD and impulsivity
- Sensory needs
- Classroom challenges
- Communication struggles
Final Emotional Close
Every Child Is Speaking… Are We Listening?
Behind every difficult moment is a child trying to be understood.
This series helps you pause, listen differently, and respond in ways that truly support them.
Start Understanding Children in a Whole New Way
